Despite sex often being a topic of public discussion many myths about sex still persist. Let's delve into each of these myths about male sexuality:
Sex should always be spontaneous and effortless:
Myth: There's a common misconception that sex should always happen spontaneously and effortlessly, fueled by passion and desire at any given moment.
Reality: In reality, sexual desire and arousal can be influenced by various factors, including stress, fatigue, and emotional well-being. It's essential to recognize that planning and communication are integral parts of a healthy sexual relationship. Scheduled or planned intimacy can be just as satisfying and can provide a sense of anticipation and connection.
It’s all about penetration:
Myth: Another prevailing myth is that sexual activity centers solely around penetration and that this is the primary source of pleasure for men.
Reality: Sexuality is diverse, and pleasure can be derived from various activities, not limited to penetration. Communication and exploration of each other's desires and preferences are crucial. Focusing on mutual satisfaction and pleasure, rather than adhering to specific acts, can enhance the overall sexual experience. Foreplay is important for men and women.
If an erection isn’t maintained until orgasm, then you have erectile dysfunction:
Myth: There is a misconception that any deviation from the stereotypical progression of sexual activity, such as maintaining an erection until orgasm, indicates erectile dysfunction.
Reality: Erectile dysfunction is a medical condition that involves persistent difficulty in achieving or maintaining an erection. However, occasional fluctuations in sexual response are normal. Stress, fatigue, anxiety, or relationship issues can contribute to these variations. It's important to distinguish between occasional challenges and a medical condition, and seeking professional advice can provide clarity and potential solutions.
Stress of exhaustion can prevent erections by moving blood flow away from extremities. As a result the decrease in blood flow can render an erection temporarily impossible.
Men are always in the mood, and if they aren’t aroused by looking at their partner, then he is no longer attracted:
Myth: A pervasive myth suggests that men are always ready for sexual activity, and any lack of immediate arousal indicates a decline in attraction.
Reality: Sexual desire can fluctuate for various reasons, and it's not solely determined by physical attraction. Emotional connection, stress, health, and overall well-being play significant roles. Communicating openly about desires, addressing any underlying issues, and understanding that occasional changes in libido are normal are vital aspects of a healthy sexual relationship. Foreplay for men can be an important part of increasing arousal in order to sustain an erection for intercourse.
In conclusion, debunking these myths is crucial for fostering a more realistic and open understanding of male sexuality. Recognizing the diversity and complexity of sexual experiences can lead to better communication, increased intimacy, and overall improved sexual well-being for individuals and couples alike.
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